The Begining of the Wedding Plans

Mark and Kristin’s Wedding Plans

A. The Wedding

1. Pre-Wedding:

NFP Class: Currently Attending
Pre-Cana/Marriage Encounter DONE
Mail Letter to Priest DONE
Get Marriage Licence -DONE

Get Suits for Groomsmen (blue velvet) Gentlemen’s Warehouse
Get Tux for Me

Measured Tux's
Mark is Done
Marshall's Is DONE
Dave's is DONE
Greg's is DONE
Jeff's is DONE
Robbie Wagner is DONE
John Nealon is DONE

Need to Pick up Suits and Pay 4 Them

GET GIFTS FOR WEDDING PARTY
Brides Maids- RECIEVED
Groomsmen RECIEVED
Flower Children-Ordered
Ringer -Ordered
K's Parents- CARD/AFTER THE WEDDING GET GIFT
M's Parents- CARD/AFTER WEDDING GET GIFT
Msgr. Hallaran - Probably $$$

Get Bridesmaid’s Dresses DONE
Get Bride’s Wedding Dress- DONE

Get Ring Sizes- DONE
Got Wedding Rings 6 and 10 DONE

Register for Gifts Ongoing
Get final wedding List May have Add On's
Sent Out and some have Recieved
Get Addresses of Wedding invites Depends on one above
Give contact info to all groomsmen - Should Be Done

Rehearsal - Wend, December 30th 6:00 PM
Make sure Wedding Party knows EMAILED INFO
Rehearsal Dinner - At Kristin's Parents

Wedding Shower DONE
Bachelor Party ???

Write Msgr Hallaran Essay DONE
Finish Msgr. Hallaran Paperwork DONE
Get Stuff as Seen on Target Gift List

Find Where Grooms Wedding Party is Staying nite before

Booked Hotel Sweet

Find Where Guests are staying nite before- Sent Information


2. The Wedding Ceremony


Wedding Party chosen

Make Church Bulletin
Remain Certain Individuals of Liturgical Norms

Celebrant: Msgr. Halloran
Co-Celebrant
Fr. B?
Fr. Boressa

Best Man: Marshall Myers

Groomsmen:
Jeff Wagner
Dave Patten
Greg Z

Maid’s of Honor:
Kathleen Nealon
Erin Nealon

Bridesmaids:
Katherine Keimeg
Karen Igoe

Photographer: Joe Buckley
Videographer: Andrew Shanley (Pay $500.00)
Give Bill or INFO to J&K
Organist: $150
Priest: ???
Parish: ???

Let Singers Know our Song

Opening Hymn Rosemary Renyolds: Something Cannon
Offetory Hymn Kathleen’s Sisters: Be Thy My Vision
Celtic Hallaylula
Communion Hymn Rosmary Renyolds: She'll Pick
Closing Hymn Kathleen's Sisters: Companions on the Journey

Pick out Readings: PICKED OUT

The Readers

1st Reading: Karen Igoe Tobit 8: 4B-8
Responsorial Psalm: Kathleen's Sisters Psalm 32
2nd Reading : Marshall Myers Romans 12: 1-2, 9-18
Gospel- Matthew 19:3-6

Hossena: Kathleen's Sisters

Gift Bearer: Flower Girls
Prayer of the Faithful : MAKE LIST
TBA Make list of dearly departed

Ring Bearer: Robbie Wagner
Flower Girls: Hannah Igoe ,Caitlin Igoe

Receiving Line


INBETWEEN
Get Limo
Figure out Information

Wedding Photos: Where to Take Pictures?In Church
Reception Hall
Outside?

3. The Wedding Reception
DJ- Depoist Made
Touch Up Playlist
Give List of Birthdays

Cake: Amanda

RECEPTION HALL: Pay based on Guests coming.
Seat according to who is coming.

B. The Honeymoon

Transportation: Airplane- Booked & Paid For
Hotel: Booked & Not Paid For/ Not Confirmed
Car Rental: Booked & Not Paid For/ Confirmed

Where were going and when

Daily Mass-
Maybe More Days at Clinic!!!

Monday January 4th
WE ARRIVE
Wonderwoks

Tuesday January 5th
Disney Day # 1 Get Tickets from J&K

Wednesday January 6th
Disney Day #2 Get Tickets from J&K

Thursday January 7th
Wet n Wild ONLINE TICKETS?

Friday January 8th
Pro-Life Activities
Shrine

Saturday January 9th
Maybe Clinic ?
Holy Land Experience ONLINE TICKETS

Sunday Janurary 10th
Universal Stuios or (Discovery Cove) ONLINE TICKETS
Blue Man Group?

Monday January 11th
We LEAVE

C. The Marriage

Clean Condo
Put it on the Market -it is
Find Job

The House:
Deal Signed: September 10th
Mark has Moved In Oc
Move in Stuff yes Mark

Prepare to Paint it ok
Paint it 1 1/2 quarter done
Tile the Kitchen DONE
Tile the Bathroom DONE
Cover up Woodpecker Hole DONE??
Cut down bushes in the Front done DONE

LEFT TO DO INSIDE
Light in Peach Room
Light in Blue Room

New outlits downstairs
Outlet in the Bathroom

Paint the Kitchen

Throw away Mark's ulgy cups and plates

Do something with road kill matress

Organize our Stuff

OUTSIDE
Paint the Outside
Outside Light Back on
Outlit outside?

January 2 Move to Framingham
Find Job

A New Place to lay our Heads

As Kristin and I travel the one road, the long and winding road to God knows where, we have made another big monumental landmark in our new lives as a soon to be married couple.

Soon FOMAK's young and old, far and near, will be able to travel to Framingham Massachusetts and wine and dine at Mark & Kristin's new home. Actually neither us drink wine, so will serve you leomon-aide instead and play a rousing competitive full contact game of Scrabble.

The papers will be signed in September, just in time as my lease in my life in Watertown is about to end. Kristin will remain in RI until she sells her Condo and then she will move in with me, after we are married. Till then she will live with Mom and Dad.

We have already meet our neighbors who live next door. A nice older woman who likes teddy bears and the Pillsbury Dough Boy. Her son and husband also live with her. Betty, her son Randy and Joe or John her husband. They could end up being very good friends.

Before us Rhonda Ralings lived in our house. But saddly she has gone to her eternal reward. But we now continue the legacy of living in her house. When we get settled, you can continue the legacy of visiting the house. Afterall, I'm sure Ronda had guests.

Important Dates on the Road to Cana

May 23rd 2009 Engagement Period Begins: Mark Proposes by the Charles River in Watertown

June 1st 2009 : Wedding Ceremony Booked at St. Mary's Star of the Sea, Narragansett, RI for Saturday June 5th, 2010. (Date Cancelled: See Below)

September 17th TIME CHANGE
WEDDING DATE SET FOR JANUARY 2nd, 2010

Reception Booked at

West Valley Inn
4 Blossom Street
West Warwick, RI 02893

(401)822-2834

http://www.westvalleyinn.com/

After a long time of Just being friends

and then dating

and then Just being friends again,

well,

Just Friendship

Just wasn't working out,

so I asked Kristin to Just marry me

and she said yes.

Sooooo

I'm now engaged to Kristin Nealon.

Marriage sometime probably in Summer 2010

First Real Blog Post in Years

I’m behind in life. My bills have piled up and I don’t take the time to actually pay them, although I do have the $ to do so. I have friends I haven’t seen in awhile I still need to get caught up with. My room still is not organizied the way I want it. Still things unpacked. I still have writings waiting to be written. I have a long letter explaining my life to those who are connected to my life. Gosh I’m somewhat of a mess. But I’m trying to change that.

I have successfully written something everyday for the first week and ½ of lent. Some days the writing was better then others. Today the writing is ok. I’m doing it. I’m about to post it. I wish I had kept up my writing over the years, leaving a journal for future generations to explore and read. How many electronic writings will be gone someday. How many more trees can be turned into books and paper?

I look back on the oppurtunities that I have had over the years. The missed oppurtunties. The lack of fullfilling certin dreams, goals and using my talents when I should have. Sometimes its really sad of what we could have been or done had we made other choices in life. If God allows me to live long enough maybe I’ll have a chance to fullfill the purpose of why I was born and came to this planet. It’s still possible. I still have time. May I not waste it.